My bf is very good at pissing me off sometimes.

He makes me so mad that I just cannot talk to him, hence the cold silent war treatment.

I am the cold avoiding one whilst bf's the confrontational one.

Just how disastrous can that get?

Very.

He wants to talk. She doesn't want to. He tries to be cute. And because she is STILL mad, she gets extremely irritated and still won't talk.

Then, come the next day. When the cold avoiding female is feeling much calmer, she wonders (with great exasperation) every 5 min why hasn't he called.

The fact that he hadn't called till after lunch time, gets her even more agitated. Being the drama queen she is, she'd imagine the worst of the worst.

The Break-up.

What if the bf calls next to request for a break-up?! *gasp*

And being the emo woman that she is, the usual answer that pops up in her very dramatic head is always, "Break up la!"

"Who shall I bring along to Club Med now????? Hmm."

THAT drama ok

So, Mr Tay is always the rational one. He wouldn't imagined such nonsense. No, he won't. He believes that there is always a better solution to every arguement. He would let the bitch gf cool down first, get back into her senses and then, only then would he call.

By 4pm, the drama queen is finally thinking straight. She is now suddenly feeling extremely willing to talk. And as if blessed with great telepathic power, Mr Tay will call.

She'd "Hello?" and he'd "Still angry?" and she who was initially VERY EXTREMELY POSITIVELY mad a couple of hours ago (before 4pm) would go...
"Little bit la," replied with a slight hint of sulkiness.

Mr Tay then takes the cue for peace-calling, launched into a wee bit of pujuking and very intelligently sverved away from the topic of arguement.

And suddenly they are discussing how sucky work has been for that day, what to have for dinner and suggestions such as "Prison Break marathon tonight okie?" would followsuit.

The female is then suddenly seen smiling diabetically sweet to everyone in the office.

Extremely exhaustive 24 hrs (almost) of having to:

- constantly look at phone for smses or calls
- play director in mind to many possible scenarios that might happen
- not being able to sleep
- lose hair
- lose focus
- sulk + pout + stay pissed + grow more frown lines

This wretched process repeats itself every now and then. It's hell having to go through it but what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, right? At least I am now, hah!

Awaiting next battle.

Hehe, I love you baby!