Entry: Dilema Minggu Ini Tuesday



Here's the deal.

You finally found someone whom you can click so well with and the chemistry is just screamingly amazing.
You are excited.
You're in LOVE.

The problem is, she/he has a partner of 4 years now.
But to give you a little hope, she has mentioned that her relationship with the bf is just ok, stale and just the same like every other day.
So what do you do?
Do you give up?
Or do you fight for it?

My friend, told me that at long last, "She's The One."

Last night, he asked me whether it is ok to have a relationship with someone working within the same company.
I said, "Ok, what."
He said, some of friends are against the idea, while some said it's ok if both of them are in different departments.
I said, "What nonsense. I said ok means ok alright. Just as long as you stick to the work ethics during working hours and not french-kissing in the pantry or something la."

He has been liking this girl in his office, BAT.
And, they have been hanging out together very often lately.
Told him, BAT is like damn big and want to have a relationship also won't be a problem, since they both work in different departments and they won't even have time to wanna play footsy la right?

He said, "Ok. But one problem. She has a bf of 4 years."

"Oooops."

"But she's the one. I just know it! She's so different and you know that I've been single for so long and I've just been waiting and waiting. And now I found her but she already has someone else. cry"

So there you go. What would you do, if you were caught in a situation like this?

   5 comments

MAE
January 30, 2007   01:47 PM PST
 
tough also. i always believe you should fight for your happiness. but at the same time cannot destroy other ppl's rship also lar.

hmm tough one. luckily i'm married so don't have to face this kind of situations! hehehehe
ben.folds.five
January 30, 2007   08:08 PM PST
 
Go for it lah! She already kasi opening saying that the rship with bf is boring. tunggu apa lagi!
Perfectly Flawed
January 31, 2007   08:56 AM PST
 
All's fair in Love and War.

Not like she's married. But he's gotta be sure she's The One and of her feelings towards him.
~adriennegurl~
January 31, 2007   10:51 AM PST
 
honestly, this isn't a tough cookie t crack...

i believe that coming in between a r'ship will inevitable lead to destruction! it doesn't matter if she bitches about her current r'ship; if it was truly THAT BAD, she has the option of leaving...so don't be fooled by that....

how can you really know she's the one before even dating her? you may think so, you may be totally infatuated, but you really cannot honestly know..until you are physically,mentally,emotionally involved with that person... and besides, if she's really the one, and you're meant to be together... we will get-together, all in good time.

lastly, its the decent thing to treat others the way you'd like to be treated... so if you don't want some guy messing with any r'ship you may have in the future, don't do it yourself... have a little more faith in yourself, and happiness will come to you :)
Patrick
January 31, 2007   06:09 PM PST
 
Its a dog eat dog world. If you feel like it go for it.. And DUDE wake up, theres no such thing as SHE IS THE ONE (its kind of a consolation you give yourself, a reason you give yourself to pursue) and when you are with her one day, other dogs out there wont hesitate to attack as well, even after you are married...there'd still be others who are basically, easily come with better qualities than you. What makes a relationship last is between the two, the tolerance and the shit they both go thru... and how you treat your lady. Basically what I am saying is.. take a shot cus you have nothing to lose.. To me you are still not even in the pitch, so raise your hand tell the referee I wanna PLAY. Do something and get an ultimatum and if you lose your wager, move on .. you'd be surprised how many "SHE's THE ONE" you will find along the way if you really open up your eyes!

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